Saturday, July 14, 2012

Should I feel this way?

Should I feel this way?
Hello. I have been feeling quite lonely these past few weeks. Actually, it's been persisting for several years, on and off. My name is Victor. I live in Southern California, with my mother. The place I live in is probably one of the whiter communities in So Cal. My mother separated from my dad when I was little. I'm guessing they felt the relationship vibe for a little while, then they just split. I noticed this happens to some interracial relationships. You see, my father is Mexican and my mother's parents come from Norway and Ireland. I guess that makes me biracial, but in the eyes of my school, I'm Hispanic. I remember one time my mother came to a student-teacher conference, and they asked where my mother was and I said that was here and they then said "Don't be silly, that's some random woman." As I said before, I live in one of the whiter communities in Southern California. I visit my dad sometimes on weekends in Lincoln Heights, a largely Mexican-American area, however the visitation is limited. I live with my mother the other times and I feel disconnected from my Hispanic counterparts. In my town, if you're Mexican, you came here to work with either a hammer or broom in your hand. My classmates make horrible jokes about people of Mexican descent and I'm the only Mexican in the grade. People don't even know my name, they just refer to me as Victor. In history class, the teacher said that Mexico was taken over by the Spaniards because the Mayans were weak. I couldn't speak up, I couldn't say anything. My mom has a decent amount of money, so we aren't as economically deprived as other Chicanos. Everyday is basically the same. Come home, sleep, eat, wake, go to the hell that is school, repeat. No fun on weekends, no one to hangout with. Now I can understand what my father was talking about when he was telling me about the Mexican experience in the United States. He told me about lots of alienation. I'm starting to think that the world is a great place if you're white. I wonder if I should leave home and try and to make it on my own.
Adolescent - 2 Answers
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its normal to feel that way..been there done that. but look...try to connect with you dad side of the family..if that doesn't work..learn to except the fct you are who you are...and maybe try to get out more..your mom has money right??..get her to let you go a summer adventure..try going abroad..the U.S. isn't as friendly as the people over there in Spain..France..{The french are actually nice..lol}..there wesites you can go to that have trips to go abroad either for a internship or just to have an exxperience of a life time...trust me..get out that wack ass community and get some friends who understand you or if not understand..at least except you for who you are...
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Have pride in your heritage. And speak up! The Mayans were not weak (btw) the Spaniards carried diseases, had horses, and more advanced weapons, taking the Mayans by storm. (Well this is what MY teacher told us...) And there are two type of Mexicans: the many who come to work here for pay that is less than dandy, and those who come and live comfortably with permanent jobs and homes in the U.S. But for some reason we are so prideful about where we come from. And maybe you should go somewhere for summer vacation. Maybe somewhere you can see where being a Latino isn't so bad. The world isn't that great for anyone: my school is mostly Hispanic, and most of the Hispanics here, makes jokes about white people... Either way, we all make jokes about each other. And plus, I know how that feeling of not belonging somewhere feels; me and my father once got followed around a Best Buy for two hours, because one of the employees thought we were going to steal something because we couldn't afford it. i.e, my father is Police Officer, who is from Guadalajara, Mexico, and a U.S citizen. :D


Saturday, July 7, 2012

should I feel this way?

should I feel this way?
Hello. I have been feeling quite lonely these past few weeks. Actually, it's been persisting for several years, on and off. My name is Victor. I live in Southern California, with my mother. The place I live in is probably one of the whiter communities in So Cal. My mother separated from my dad when I was little. I'm guessing they felt the relationship vibe for a little while, then they just split. I noticed this happens to some interracial relationships. You see, my father is Mexican and my mother's parents come from Norway and Ireland. I guess that makes me biracial, but in the eyes of my school, I'm Hispanic. I remember one time my mother came to a student-teacher conference, and they asked where my mother was and I said that was here and they then said "Don't be silly, that's some random woman." As I said before, I live in one of the whiter communities in Southern California. I visit my dad sometimes on weekends in Lincoln Heights, a largely Mexican-American area, however the visitation is limited. I live with my mother the other times and I feel disconnected from my Hispanic counterparts. In my town, if you're Mexican, you came here to work with either a hammer or broom in your hand. My classmates make horrible jokes about people of Mexican descent and I'm the only Mexican in the grade. People don't even know my name, they just refer to me as Victor. In history class, the teacher said that Mexico was taken over by the Spaniards because the Mayans were weak. I couldn't speak up, I couldn't say anything. My mom has a decent amount of money, so we aren't as economically deprived as other Chicanos. Everyday is basically the same. Come home, sleep, eat, wake, go to the hell that is school, repeat. No fun on weekends, no one to hangout with. Now I can understand what my father was talking about when he was telling me about the Mexican experience in the United States. He told me about lots of alienation. I'm starting to think that the world is a great place if you're white. I wonder if I should leave home and try and to make it on my own. Psh. I doubt it. From what I've seen and experienced in the media, socially, and geopolitically, you whites have it better than any other minority on the planet.
Psychology - 5 Answers
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dude, what the hell are you talking about? being white may have some small perks but life sucks for us too on way or another
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I'm sorry that you feel so out of place and get treated so poorly by some people. Let me tell you though that white people, or all people in general regardless of ethnicity, are not the same. It must be the area where you live since it is predominantly white and they are conditioned to view people a certain way. It is unfair to you but that is how life works. Everyone is discriminated against in some part of the world and unfortunately that cannot be changed. Just know that you're not alone, the people who surround you now do not represent the total white population, and you will have a chance to change things. I don't know how old you are now, but finish your eduction before you do anything else. Do the best that you can, don't let the ignorant comments phase you, be yourself and you will be fine. When you have the education and the means to move someplace else than do so, but don't just run away before you're ready. Good luck and don't let other people's ignorance get you down. And just know that being white does not necessarily make one's life easier.
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If you're not out of school, you might be better off looking for things to do outside of school. Don't quit school and leave home and try to make it on your own just because you feel uncomfortable. Ask to talk to your principal and mention discrimination and prejudice when you go into that private meeting and say that you do not feel that you can get an adequate education if you are subjected to racism (trick is to name specific incidents so start writing them down.) He or she will have to stop the racist garbage or you could get ACLU involved. There are huge movements in Chicano/Latino groups and see if you can't get your mom to take you to events that they put on, on the weekends. Eventually you will be able to see that you can do things that will fight the prejudiced thinking of your classmates with help from those groups. Not everyone is prejudiced. Teenagers are just naturally cruel for a few years before you all become human again. The world is no better if you're white or not. Reach out to all the Chicano/Latino groups you can right now, they will help you come to terms with your heritage and give you ways to fight the hatred. Also, talk to your dad, but ask him how he deals with it. It's not fine that he's had to deal with alienation but just the same how did/does he deal with it? Good luck Victor. I wish you well.
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Okay, first off, I have to say--you sound very intelligent, so you get kudos straight off. The first commentor was wrong; it's true that whites have it easier, because the world is very tilted (yes, even in 'modern' society). I'm white, and I totally agree with you. That does not mean that we're deserving, or that any other race is undeserving. It's just that people are idiots and some whites truly believe they are better, and try to act better, than everyone else. And I'm sorry that you feel out of sorts and out of place. That's not fair, at all. But from what I can tell, you really have the makings to break away from the 'downsides' of your racial identity (I'm not saying there's anything wrong with being Hispanic, I'm just saying that it can be harder for you, because people act as though you've got to PROVE you're worth something before you are, unlike whites--who are, apparently, worth something even if they do nothing with themselves. HA, what a joke--It's ignorant, but it's the way many people are.) Mexicans are alienated because the media gives them a bad rap, makes them out to be criminals and drug lords and the like. So many people don't even take the time to get to KNOW Hispanics, and if they did, they'd learn that they are fine people. What I'm saying is, you can do whatever you set yourself to. Trust me, you can. I'm just a sixteen year old girl, but I'm a good judge of character, and you've got your feet on the ground. Get the best education you can--that will open so many doors, and no one can shut them (no matter how ignorant they are). If you do that, I promise, you can make it on your own. Focus on your talents, find activities that you enjoy--reach out to others, even if they are jerks, and you'll get far. School can be a drag, especially when you're different. But grin and bear it. Find good friends outside of school if you must, and you won't regret it. Good luck, Victor. (Perhaps your name has more significance than you think, neh?) ~Jen
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tons of people feel this way and I do have to agree to a certain extent about whites being better off, but that's just those stupid rich, old-ass MFers that take everyone else's money. A LOT of white people are doing really bad. Like my family, I go to work for me and I help my parents and give them 100 a month and I'm 16. We don't have it better off than anyone else.


Sunday, July 1, 2012

is the nobel prize , obamas payoff?

is the nobel prize , obamas payoff?
Whether it was rewarding Jimmy Carter for criticizing the Iraq War or supporting Al Gore in his crusade against global warming, the Norwegian Parliament - which chooses the winners of the Nobel Peace Prize - has sought to use the award as a political tool to influence American politic s. Its prestige and moral power make the prize a potent weapon with which to help steer the direction of the colossus beyond the seas that controls a quarter of the world’s economy and most of its military power. Now, the Norwegians have weighed in to support Barack Obama in his bid to reshape America so it looks more like, well, Norway, or at least like Europe. European socialism cannot succeed without conquering the United States. If the European Union has high taxes and the US keeps its levies low, business and brains will flow to America. If the EU’s labor standards require long vacations, high benefits, and proscribe layoffs and ours’ do not, employers will migrate across the ocean to do their business in the States. If the Old World curbs ambition by taxation, regulation, and social opprobrium, the ambitious will flock to the New World as they have done for four hundred years. So, Lenin was right. Socialism cannot exist in just one country - or one continent. It must dominate worldwide or wealth and power will flow to those who remain committed to the free market. Europe realizes this reality and it makes Obama’s election as president of the United States all the more welcome. The Nobel Prize is really Obama’s payback for disciplining the unruly United States and taming it to be a member of the European family of nations. Europe wants to reverse the American Revolution and re-colonize us and it sees in Obama a kindred spirit willing to do its bidding. Does the United States let its entrepreneurs run wild, coming up with fanciful new ideas and making billions from them? Obama will regulate and subdue business just like they do in Europe. Do U.S. businesses compete by slashing prices, aggressively pursuing markets, and jockeying for market share? Obama will make them behave themselves and stay in line just like European companies do. Do Americans work hard and push aggressively to make as much money as they can? Obama will raise taxes, emphasize community values, and narcotize their ambition by offering government largesse. And does the United States still believe in a sloppy, contrarian democracy in which ordinary people can directly affect their government, states have powers, and courts can reel in executive authority? Obama will use his rubber stamp majority in Congress to pass new laws regardless of public opinion and make us obey. In foreign policy, is the United States still willing to stand up, alone if necessary, to protect human rights in Bosnia, in Iraq, and in Afghanistan? Obama will curb this unruly independence and mold it within the fabric of appeasement that has dominated Europe for the past half a century. All this heavy lifting, this conversion of America into a European state, deserves a reward. And what is a more fitting one than to give Obama than the Nobel Peace Prize? He obviously doesn’t deserve the award for economics or, given his health care ideas, for medicine. But the Peace Prize expresses Europe’s longing: to
Politics - 2 Answers
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the Norwegians who are socialists were just buying some policies that they knew Conrade 0bama was going to do , it is disgraceful there is no creditability to the prize what so ever and I would say that the Norwegians have displaced a total lack of ethics
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You Betcha !!!


Thursday, June 28, 2012

Please help, i will miss 2 years of school and i dont know what to do with my life?

Please help, i will miss 2 years of school and i dont know what to do with my life?
I have been living in Norway for about 1 year now, and that 1 year i went to a school that barely taught me any norwegian, so my norwegian is pretty bad. And i appplied for my 10th grade class (i would have been in the 11th if i was still in Canada, but im still in the 10th because i needed to learn norwegian), and now i wil lhave to go to anotehr school to teach me norwegian so i will miss 1 more year, so when i am supposed to be in gr.12, i will be in the 10th. So pretty much, i need backup plans. What could be ideas to make a stable living without completely relying on too much school? I play guitar so i plan to form a band and just sell albums and make some money off that, and i also plan to buy a house in the city centre and open a Metal music cafe/clothing shop, and i use to be an extra in comercials, so i may try that again. Would those ideas be good? And is there anything else i could try to do to make a decent living?
Other - Society & Culture - 4 Answers
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You are still young don't panic. How about the military? There are also many options in both Norway and Canada and plenty of people/programs that can hrlp you.
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i would get off the computer and get a job than go back to school
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Stay in school. Where are your parents?
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if you sell albums, it means you are famous. so I think its very hard to become famous. and those who are famous, are just very lucky. dont think of this dream too much. my opinion: if you wanna be famous, you have to face the fact that you might never succeed. otherwise it will hurt and you will push things too far. but if you wanna be famous, you need a job, so you can support yourself, pay an agent and everything else. or at least you will need a job, if you never become famous, so you dont waste time and you can have money all this time. I think that almost every singer that is now a star, used to work a lot before they become famous, like kelly clarkson. she was working anywhere she could, so she could afford everything. if you have money, then a Metal music cafe/clothing shop is perfectly okay. but you have to know how to run it, so you wont fail. if nothing works, then just find a nice job.


Thursday, June 14, 2012

I have proposals for the new country, Southern Sudan. What do you think?

I have proposals for the new country, Southern Sudan. What do you think?
As you all may know, Southern Sudan is about to officially become a sovereign state. I have some proposals for the new country that I'd like to run by the group. This seems like the perfect place to submit them. The first main thing I'd like to introduce is a new currency. For the purposes of this post, I'll call the currency SSK (Southern Sudan Krona). I have 2 propositions for the currency. 1. Currency introduction could go like the Euro. When the Euro was first introduces, the exchange was about 1.19 Euros to $1 (USD). So, when first introducing the SSK, the exchange rate could be 1.20 SSK = $1. Eventually as time goes on, the SSK will get stronger until it's equal and surpasses the USD in value. 2. The currency value could start off and remain low in value but high in quantity. Let's say....6.70 SSK = $1. It could be like Norway, where people make LOTS of money. Minimum wage could be like 200 SSK/hr. ($30). People will make lots of money but cost of living will also be pretty expensive. So a minimum wage salary for a month would be 32,000 SSK ($4800). That would give the people lots of purchasing power. Other things I'd like to get there are international chain restaurants, build the communications infrastructure with wired and wireless high speed internet connections and cell phone towers for smart phones, Wal-Mart type stores that have everything, and transportation networks (interstates, roads, paved streets). I'd also like to get in a modern banking system where people go to open accounts and make deposits, and are issued credit and debit cards for purchases. I'd really like to go there, submit my ideas, and have them let me help them make it the strongest, richest economy in Africa. Tell me what you think.
Current Events - 1 Answers
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I think you're delusional.


Thursday, June 7, 2012

Do you think America actually gives money to poor people in other countries?

Do you think America actually gives money to poor people in other countries?
Americans are regularly told by politicians and the media, that America is the world's most generous nation. This is one of the most conventional pieces of 'knowledgeable ignorance'. According to the OECD, the Organisation for Economic Cooperation and Development, the US gave between $6 and $15 billion in foreign aid in the period between 1995 and 1999. In absolute terms, Japan gives more than the US, between $9 and $15 billion in the same period. But the absolute figures are less significant than the proportion of gross domestic product (GDP, or national wealth) that a country devotes to foreign aid. On that league table, the US ranks twenty-second of the 22 most developed nations. As former President Jimmy Carter commented: 'We are the stingiest nation of all'. Denmark is top of the table, giving 1.01% of GDP, while the US manages just 0.1%. The United Nations has long established the target of 0.7% GDP for development assistance, although only four countries actually achieve this: Denmark, 1.01%; Norway, 0.91%; the Netherlands, 0.79%; Sweden, 0.7%. Apart from being the least generous nation, the US is highly selective in who receives its aid. Over 50% of its aid budget is spent on middle-income countries in the Middle East, with Israel being the recipient of the largest single share. The purpose of 99% of foreign "aid" is to create foreign markets for US products, especially arms sales. Foreign aid aids the giver (America), not the recipient. The leaders get the money, not the people. Giving money to the people is both not useful to the US as well as rather impossible. There are no people driving up to villages with cash and handing townspeople money making sure to distribute it evenly. They give it to the government and or the rebel leadership to allot. Richer nations receive the most aid. 1 third of all American aid goes to Israel and Egypt. After that it goes to places like Columbia, Pakistan, Jordan etc... not Rwanda or Burundi or Botswana. When looking at how it's allotted by the US, it's clear that strategic considerations, political alignment and drug policy are the biggest considerations while the poorest nations receive the least if any aid. The U.N. Voting Record doesn't even count, if you can't do anything for the US. Sweden spends the majority of it's aid on places like Sierra Leone, Gaza & the West Bank and Liberia and the rest of Africa. When will Americans come out of their government / media induced coma and realize the propaganda that is fed them? Of course America doesn't give money to poor people. They don't even give any to poor dying Americans, why would they give it to a Botswanian? http://www.boston.com/news/nation/articles/2006/10/08/bush_brings_faith_to_foreign_aid/ http://www.networkeurope.org/feature/sweden-cuts-foreign-aid-recipients http://www.vexen.co.uk/USA/foreign_aid.html "Below 50%" - 500 million. He's not worth 50 billion. Anyway, re-read, you're not getting it. "End the Fed" - Please no more self-delusional America speak about how we all mooch off America's generosity in defending us. We neither want nor need America's "protection". "Cracker" - The topic is foreign aid genius, not charities in America for Americans.
Politics - 11 Answers
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I did not know that. Pretty shocking... but unsurprising.
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Yes I do. At least in terms of individual donations to charity, and not purely government statistics like the ones you use. Americans (not government) give more to charity than any other nation in the world. So your lame attempt to denigrate Americans (for whatever reason) is laughable. Rant much? How does it feel to be a "Top Contributor" that's shown to be selective in their data, dishonest in it's presentation, exposed, and frankly outfoxed by a lowly level 1 with no avatar calling himself "cracker"? Must feel embarrassing.
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Very surprising I did not know this.
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When they stop rushing back and forth from their jobs so they can pay taxes.
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bill gates donated $50 billion dollars for AIDS research, do you know of a man from denmark who gave that much money away.
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We do give for our own gain but when you say Japan gives all that money I say yeah because they barely pay for their defense because the U.S. does. The bankers manipulated us into being world police and hegemony guardians, some countries benefit greatly while others get tyrannized. The U.S. provides defense and hits for half the world, the people allow it to happen because they don't know the wisdom of non intervention and are taught there is no other way.
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Not surprising. I didn't know the exact numbers but I know that all the money the U.S. gives for aid is directly tied to helping U.S. interests worldwide. I suppose the reasoning is that such aid helps U.S. businesses and sets up stable markets so that the people can use them. Then again, it also tends to lead them into dependency, which does them no good. Thanks for the numbers. However, you seem to imply that Sweden, Denmark, and Japan give money to these poorer states out of some perceived charity. I would dispute that. When Sweden gives money to Sierra Leone, they are seeking after their interests just as much as the United States is by investing in Egypt or Israel or whereever. Don't think for a moment that they are doing it out of the kindness of their heart. Swedish interests may not be economic in nature, especially to places like Sierra Leone, but they are getting some benefit out of it, be it business, defense, or diplomatic. It may even be a prestige thing. To quote Lord Palmerston, a former British Prime Minister, "Nations have no permanent friends or allies, they only have permanent interests." Cheers! ©2009 SinisterMatt. All Rights Reserved.
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I am not surprised as we just write a check and let some idiot decide who gets what , without conditions why write th check? We need to end all foreign aid!
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That's a joke right they rather build their military then give to the poor
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The American people donate more money than any single government on Earth to charity, including our own. Your numbers are just government aid, not the total of government and private aid. If you tell the whole story instead of cherry picking your numbers, then America is clearly the most generous nation on Earth.
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not at all surprising.



Friday, June 1, 2012

How much would a profession like this make in norway?

How much would a profession like this make in norway?
If you happen to be a Finishing Contractor in Norway, as in freelance, would you be making a lot of money? Lets say u live outside of Oslo? Are people in this profession considered wealthy, or just have enough to feed a family of 2-3? As a Finishing contractor, and a strong believer of the Christian Faith, can he also be an elder of a church there? putting together financial and professional status...?
Other - Europe - 1 Answers
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This company (Access Personnel AS) need an contractor, take contact with therese@access-personnel.no I bet you would make lots of money, and remember, that if you are working in Norway and get sick, you will still receive money and insurance.