what can we do? confused?
MY boyfriend moved out again, because he missed his family because they never came to see him, like last time he moved out. but this time he said he doesn't wanna talk to me at all. and he isn't coming back again, and i don't know what to do. cause he doesn't wanna talk to me. i mean i wanna give him space an time. cause at first he said i don't wanna be with you, cause you put too much stress on me with you being sad all the time, but before he even went tot talk to his father cause he went on a drive to talk to his father, me and him were fine like he said he wasn't gonna leave and he loves me and he wouldn't leave me but then he came back 10 minutes later and he is leaving? when he moved out last time its cause his family threatened to disown him so he went back with them, and every time he moves back there he has to break up with me cause his grandparents they let his family live with them cause they are wealthy, he has to break up with me cause they think im after their money, its pretty pathetic cause i never asked them for one thing, so im almost positive its his family making him do this .then before he walked out the door, he said he still wants to be with me but we need to get our **** together and we will get back together, and he gave me a hug and 2 kisses and said i love you. so i don't know. im so confused, and i know for a fact he is confused cause if he lives with my he feels like he is telling his family to **** off, and if he lives with me he feels like he is telling me to **** off except he cant talk to me at his grandparents house, and my mom said he had a surprise for me and he said he did and i was so excited and i was gonna get it for my birthday. well he was gonna propose to me and he had the ring and everything. my mom showed it to me :( so im so confused. like if he really still wants to be with me or he just doesn't wanna hurt me and we just had our 1 year anniversary Sunday nd he doesn't wanna talk to me on the phone cause he said that will make him wanna be with me more. i don't know if it is his family, like last time. im gonna die tonight cause i wont be sleeping in his arms. or waking up to his face or anything :( and i couldn't sleep what so ever last night. plus he took everything. or thought he did. he packed all up and left a bag of clothes in my kitchen on accident, his suit case is in my moms car so he left that, and a couple other things so that's sitting in my room. on my mirror he wrote on it and it just says like "i love you and i forever will, and i wanna be with you forever, your the most beautiful baby girl in the world" and i don't wanna wash it off like its so sad i cant even go in my own room with out almost crying. ever since he left i can barely breathe and i would watch a movie to occupy myself or keep myself busy but like i said everything reminds me of him.i always would watch movies with him or TV. we did like everything together so i cant do anything with out thinking bout him. i just want him back. i wanna talk to him bout all of this and say im sorry for being sad lately but i cant help it my little sis is depressed and cutting my mom wants to kill herself. and its hard cause im worrying bout everything... i need my baby back, i need everything to be perfect again. i need him to get his *** to Alta ( my school) . i know he isn't gonna cause he lives back in with his family and i know they wont allow that because i go there. but oh my gosh and i just want his *** to get on here, so i can ask him if its him. or his family. or ask him if i do good for like a week or something like he can talk to my mom if he wants to see how im doing, can we get back together he doesn't have to live with me i just want to know he is mine and we are together and everything like that cause my birthday is in 10 days and if he isn't there or me and him aren't together im not having a birthday party. and he went online just to change his facebook status to single and i know i have to give it time but i mean, i know his family they wont let him call me, or talk to me like last time. so even if he wanted to he cant, and my birthday is in 2 weeks and its gonna kill me if im not with him by then cause me and him had so much planned, and he was gonna ask me to marry him. PRETTY PLEASE DON'T SAY MOVE ON CAUSE I HAVE BEEN WITH HIM FOR A YEAR AND I LOVE HIM SO MUCH OR SAY I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO TELL YOU, CAUSE I'M TRYING TO HANG IN THERE AND GIVE IT TIME AND JUST BE HAPPY, BUT ITS SO HARD :( Ps: im 17, in case you wanted to know.and how can i get a hold of him to talk to him about all of this, he doesnt have a cell phone? so how would i talk to him about all of this?
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OK... I won't tell you that you are wasting your time....You only want to "hear what you WANT to hear".....So why bother asking people here??
